The Competence Bond
What success can hide about the people holding an organization together.
When a deadline slips, who gets the call? Usually it’s the person who saved the last one. They take on another task, solve another problem, and keep things moving. The customer gets an answer. The numbers look fine. Everyone moves on.
But what did that person set aside to make it happen—and how often have we asked them to do it?
The Competence Bond examines the obligation leaders create when they repeatedly draw on someone’s reliability. Trust brings opportunity, but it can also become an expectation of unlimited availability. Over time, an organization can mistake an employee’s willingness to absorb the strain for evidence that its processes are working.
“I missed the signal because the system was still working.”
James Engel
A leader examining his own decisions
This conversation begins with a mistake I made. I relied on a capable employee who kept accepting responsibility. The work got done, and I let the results reassure me even as signs of strain appeared.
I bring that experience to a practical discussion about judgment, accountability, and the work that performance reports can leave out. The question is not whether leaders should trust capable people. It is how we recognize when trust has become dependence—and what we do about it.
Who this conversation is for
Managers, executives, and team leaders who assign work, set priorities, or depend on a few people to keep operations moving. It also offers a useful starting point for human resources, learning and development, and cross-functional leadership groups.
If the same names surface whenever something goes wrong, this conversation belongs in the room.
What participants will examine
- Where the extra work goes. Trace a successful outcome beyond the score to see who absorbed unplanned responsibilities and what they postponed.
- What a dependable “yes” leaves unsaid. Ask about capacity and competing priorities before treating agreement as proof that the workload is manageable.
- Which decisions belong to leadership. Recognize when unclear ownership, conflicting priorities, or recurring process failures are being passed to an individual to resolve.
- What to change before the next deadline. Identify work to stop, redistribute, clarify, or redesign rather than relying on the same rescue again.
Experience behind the conversation
My perspective draws on military service, nearly a decade in law enforcement, healthcare security and emergency management, higher education, and corporate operations. During Hurricane Ida, executive leadership appointed me to lead the Emergency Operations Center.
I hold an MBA and am pursuing a Doctor of Organizational Leadership. These experiences shape how I connect leadership research with decisions people have to make in real workplaces.
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